Why I walk
Look at Lily Grace today, 11 years after arriving 6 weeks too early at only 34 weeks gestation. (A full term baby makes it the entire pregnancy of 40 weeks.) Luckily for us, Lily Grace's early arrival has not slowed her down one bit. Through the research, development and support from the March of Dimes, premature babies like Lily Grace can grow and thrive like most other full term babies. Your support and love have made all the difference for us and others. Today, she is one happy, energetic, sassy, and almost taller than her momma 5th grader!
Please help us in our fight to eliminate premature births, birth defects and infant mortality. Join our Haynes Phamily Team today.
Your love and support over the last 11 years (and over $62,000 later) is so appreciated and means the world to us. From the bottom of our hearts, may God bless you and keep you close to His heart.
Billy, Jaclyn, Mickey & Lily Grace
The following is a featured article that highlighted our story in the March of Dimes September 2008 eNewsletter to give you some background on why we are so passionate about giving every baby a healthy start.
With a two-and-a-half-year-old son as the love of our lives, we waited patiently and jumped for joy when those “you’re pregnant!” pink lines appeared in early 2005. We were thrilled yet very nervous and scared -- especially after having endured two previous miscarriages. However, things were going well and looking up for us.
Mid-July of 2005, diagnosed with placenta previa and preterm labor, I was placed on strict bed rest at home with around-the-clock medications to control the contractions. Then on August 2, while lying on the couch with my son, Mickey, I felt a strange sensation that warranted a trip to the bathroom. That strange sensation was caused by profuse hemorrhaging, which landed me on hospital bed rest for the duration of my pregnancy.
On the morning of September 19th, we welcomed our barely 34-week-gestation baby girl, Lily Grace, into this world by cesarean section. After a brief kiss, she was rushed to the NICU for more specialized care, while I needed some care of my own. Unfortunately, my placenta had adhered itself to my uterus, making it impossible to deliver, so an emergency hysterectomy was performed as well.
If not hitting the desired 36 weeks, having an unexpected c-section and an emergency hysterectomy, and seeing your baby girl rushed to the NICU were not enough, Hurricane Rita was heading for southeast Texas, adding to our stress. Nothing could have prepared my heart for the immense emotional and physical pain of evacuating the city two days later without my precious newborn. We had to leave our baby girl behind. Who could do such a thing? How could we do that to her? Would she know that we didn’t have a choice? How could we get through this?
After enduring six long days of heart-wrenching pain by being miles away, we were reunited with our sweet baby girl at last. The next few weeks found us next to her Isolette every day, holding and nurturing her until she became strong enough to come home on October 6.
Although Lily Grace came home with an apnea monitor and oxygen to use during feeds, she made tremendous progress in the NICU due to the research and medical advances accomplished by the March of Dimes. Without their emotional support and invention of surfactant therapy, Lily Grace would not be the happy, bouncy, healthy almost three-year-old she is today.